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Dimensions of Dementia – A Sons Journey with His Mother

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Lori La Bey talks with Author, Elvis Gardin, about the dynamics between a mother with Alzheimer’s disease and a son trying to protect and help her live the best life in her elderly years and at the end of life.  You will hear their story of love, courage and battles and triumphs.

Elvis has written a book about their journey and how it challenges even the best care partners intentions.  Their story will make you cry, cause you to laugh and provoke you to think more conscientiously how you care for another person. The book, “Dimensions of Dementia” is a candid and raw story which comes straight from the writers’ heart to yours.

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Order your book and get it personally signed on Elvis Gardin’s  website below:   www.DimensionsofDementia.com

Email:  dimensionsofdementia@yahoo.com

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 “Feedback from the conference planning committee and our leadership team was extremely positive. Many attendees commented that she was one of the best speakers they had heard.” 

Pat Sylvia, Director of Education & Member Development LeadingAge WA

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Learn How Pain, Falls & Sleep Can Effect Dementia

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              2pm EST, 1pm CST, 12pm MST, 11am PST and 7pm London                  

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Lori La Bey, host of Alzheimer’s Speaks Radio interviews Cathy Ciolek is president of Living Well With Dementia, LLC.,  which provides education and consultation to promote well-being and positive expectations for people with dementia.  Today they will talk on how to recognize pain in people with dementia, fall prevention and challenges of those who have balance issues, along with how sleep patterns can effect dementia.

Contact Cathy Ciolek at:

Website:     www.livingwellwithdementiallc.com 

Email:          cciolek@livingwellwithdementiallc.com

Phone:        302-753-9725

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 “Feedback from the conference planning committee and our leadership team was extremely positive. Many attendees commented that she was one of the best speakers they had heard.” 
Pat Sylvia, Director of Education & Member Development      LeadingAge WA

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LA Times Cover’s Cruise For Those Living With Dementia & Their Families


LA Times Cover’s Cruise For Those Living With Dementia & Their Families


Lori La Bey, founder of a Minnesota-based organization called Alzheimer’s Speaks, maintains an online community in which patients and their caregivers “meet” and discuss common challenges.

Now she plans to bring them and others together on a weeklong Eastern Caribbean cruise in November.

The Dementia Friendly Symposium & Cruise will feature chats in which Alzheimer’s patients discuss how they live with the disease and what strategies they use to focus on what they want to do rather than on what they can no longer do. READ FULL ARTICLE


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Turning A Difficult Diagnosis Into A Defining Moment

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Turning A Difficult Diagnosis Into A Defining Moment


Bob Savage will join us tomorrow, Tuesday, January 3rd, 2017.   Bob will talk to us about  how he is dealing with the challenges of being diagnosed as being in the early stages of Alzheimer’s in 2015.  Today we will hear Bob’s story and how he turned a difficult situation into a defining moment in his life.  Once again in Bob life, he is helping others through a troubling time in their own lives by creating community and tapping creative abilities and people with early onset dementia. Join us and learn more.  If you can’t listen live you can always listen afterwards at your convenience.


Contact Information

BoHello Light Website:  https://hellolightblog.wordpress.com/

Alzheimer’s Resource Center:  www.alzheimersresourcecenter.org

Stephani Shivers, Director of Community Innovations at the Alzheimer’s Resource Center

1261 South Main Street – Plantsville, CT  06479


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Dementia: The Gift of Loving What You Do

 The Gift of Loving What You Do

by Lori La Bey, Founder of Alzheimer’s Speaks


Have you ever asked yourself,

“What Do I love to do?”

Have you ever found figuring out what you love to do is difficult?

You may be asking what does this have to do with dementia or caregiving? Please read to the end and you will see how the dots connected for me.

Most of us have asked our self the question, but few taken the risk to follow their path of passion. As a society we have not been taught to value what we love to do, but rather what we are perceived as being “good at doing.”   Typically this is led by the money stream:

  • How will you support yourself?
  • How will you keep up with the Jones?
  • How will you provide for your family?
  • How will you take that vacation or save for retirement?
  • How will you… and the list goes on.

Taking the risk to do what you love is

by no means without challenges

I know as I decided to take the road of passion with the work I do. The difference I’ve found in those challenges that come before me is simple. They are mine, by choices I have made.

They are not coming from a talking head at corporate that doesn’t understand my job and sometimes is so far removed from serving the customer, they no longer see or feel the true needs of the client. Most corporate structures follow the bottom line… the money trail; which I totally understand and respect. But in addition to the money trail, most organizations also are afraid of failure at any level within their company. This in my opinion is a huge mistake. One which stifles creativity, production, connection with their client base and others within the organization.

The fun and exciting part of doing what one loves,

is the fear of failure melts away.


It is replaced with an even stronger fear!

It is replaced with an even stronger fear, one of not trying to improve a situation. It also allows one to have the authority to decide and to take responsibility for outcomes. This is how we build leaders, not followers.

When challenges hit, you have three choices:

  • Ignore it and pretend it isn’t there – Denial
  • Acknowledge the challenge, but do nothing – Doormat Syndrome
  • Recognize the challenge and try to improve the situation – Do Something!


For those that follow their passion,

I’ve found they inherently chose the later.

I have found those doing what they love have highly defined and refined instincts. They are so zoned into to what they love to do, they see and feel things in different ways and on different levels. Most can see the big picture, yet can intimately see and meet individual needs in unique ways. They step out of the typical box we are taught “how things are supposed to be done,” and they get creative knowing if things were so great there wouldn’t be a need to change!

The truth is so many companies’ get comfortable thinking they have things figured out. They forget that life and consumer needs are fluid and change constantly. In order to consistently meet consumer needs we must constantly be looking for:

  • New trends
  • New needs
  • New or expanded consumer base
  • New ways to improve successful systems
  • New ways reduce costs
  • New ways to improve customer satisfaction

These are the things that define successful brands

So what is holding you back from doing what you love? Is it money? Is it peer pressure? Is it the perception of not being who everyone thinks you are? Or who you think you are supposed to be? I’ve found the reasons people stay put are long and varied and most have multiple reasons to stay put.

Change is not easy for most

Change is not easy for most of us. Yet, I have found change very satisfying. I’ve also found my priorities in life have change immensely. What was once a priority is no longer important. Life is simpler and more satisfying. I’m not saying making this type of change is for everyone, but I would love you to think about it.

Think of a world where people actually loved their work

Think of a world where people actually loved their work. A world where people showed up because they wanted to be there and wanted to help make a positive difference; verse just to get a paycheck and health insurance. What would that world feel like? How much kinder would the world be as a whole?

I feel I have been give one of the most precious gifts in the world. One that came to me through the back door. One I never would have wished for. One I could not have imagined.

My world changed due to my Mothers dementia. Her 30 year journey showed me the need for individuals, organizations and the world as a whole to be better. To do better.  Have more compassionate hearts and more creative minds. Less Judgment and more grace. More awareness of others needs and our own impact on others.


Don’t Let “Nay Sayers” Kill Your Dreams

If I would have listened to all the “Nay Sayers,” I never would have been able to do what I’ve done with Alzheimer’s Speaks. Baby steps and exploring options to meet needs in new ways has been my driving force. Believing we are all capable of great things. Being able to make decision without going through all the politics of a large company or organization has been a blessing.  Alzheimer’s Speaks is a one woman show, me. Check out our collaborative efforts that haven’t cost a lot of money or taken a lot of time. Working on a shoe string has its gifts.  It forces one to get creative or give up.

What might you do if you embraced

what you love to do?

What might you embrace if you did what you loved to do?   Surrounding yourself with liked minded people who are filled with passion for what they love to do is an extraordinary experience. Your passions don’t even have to align.

It is peoples belief systems that connect us

on a deeper level. One which:

  • Lifts your spirits when down
  • Helps you brainstorm when navigating new territory
  • Celebrates your accomplishments without a hidden agenda
  • Encourages you to be and do the best you can

Investigate the Possibility of who you can be.

Thank you Mom for sharing your life with me through all the twists and turns; and especially the thirty year journey with dementia. You taught me more than I ever thought possible. I promise I will continue to share the knowledge and love you shared with me to help others.

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