September 2, 2010 by Alzheimer's Speaks

Lori La Bey of Alzheimer’s Speaks is one of the Authors in the new book “Life Choices”. The title of Lori’s story is
A Caregiver’s Nightmare: Mirror Image
The formal book launch will take place in Las Vegas October 30th. If you are going to be in Vegas at that time we would love to see you. More details to come in the future.

Lori La Bey
of Alzheimer’s Speaks
and Senior Lifestyle Trends
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August 30, 2010 by Alzheimer's Speaks
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August 29, 2010 by Alzheimer's Speaks
How to Deal with Change for Aging Parents
New Book Addresses Issues and Solutions for a Peaceful Transition
SOUTH BEND (August 26, 2010) – According to the U.S. Census Bureau, there are 77 million Baby Boomers. Many Boomers are dealing with the challenge of the changing needs of an aging parent – or they soon will. The experts advise not waiting for a crisis to become educated and prepared. Where to start?
Eldercare advocate, speaker and coach Dale Carter presents the ADAPT method in her newly published book, Transitioning Your Aging Parent: A 5 Step Guide Through Crisis & Change. Developed from her personal and professional experience, Carter created the ADAPT method as a clear-cut process for families to follow in time of transition to ensure the needs of the parent, the family and their own are met. Whether an aging parent is facing a health crisis, an unsafe living situation or isolation, the ADAPT method provides a straightforward process that allows caregivers to understand the parent’s needs. It also helps to get family members on the same page, find the right resources and make the needed changes, all while respecting the needs of the parent and self.
While the ADAPT method is the core element of Carter’s book, examples and personal stories are woven throughout and includes an extensive list of references and resources. One of the key features of the book is its concise presentation and usefulness as a reference book. “This is a book you can read in one sitting, and then refer to it on numerous occasions as questions arise,” notes Michael Allard, Director of Operations, Principal Senior Living Group.
“My experience helping my own mother through a major health/life crisis was overwhelming. I drew upon my experience as an educator and project manager to put structure around the situation, find the right resources and support, and involve all of our family members,” notes Dale Carter, founder of TransitionAgingParents.com and author of Transitioning Your Aging Parent. “I later realized it was my approach and process that helped us make the right decisions, and I was inspired to share my experience in my book.”
In Transitioning Your Aging Parent, readers will learn how to:
- “Actively” listen to your parent and clearly understand your parent’s situation.
- Measure your own capacity.
- Know who to involve in decision making.
- Reach consensus.
- Create a plan for transition.
- Find experts and resources that will help your plan succeed.
- Help carry out the plan and help your parent adjust to the changes.
Transitioning Your Aging Parent is not a quick fix for problems with an aging parent. Even though the ADAPT method appears clear and straightforward, each step involves a lot of hard work. “None of this is easy,” says author Carter. “But, know that each transition is an opportunity to meet the needs of your aging parent and help your bond grow stronger.”
For more information on Transitioning Your Aging Parent, visit www.transitionagingparents.com. The book is available online. To order directly from the publisher, contact: www.lulu.com. Transitioning Your Aging Parent retails for $14.95.

Dale Carter
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
As eldercare advocate, author, speaker and coach, Dale Carter is an advocate for our elderly by reaching out to their adult children. In 2009, she founded Transition Aging Parents (TransitionAgingParents.com). In providing relevant information and insight to adult children, she enables them to help their aging parents “thrive and find joy in every stage of life.” Through her radio show, e-courses, articles, and presentations, Dale helps family caregivers respond to the challenges of caregiving, as well as find purpose and fulfillment in what is truly some of the most important work of their lives.
Dale is a member of the American Society on Aging and the Gerontology Consortium of Michiana. She holds an MBA from Indiana University, a Bachelor of Science degree in Education from North Carolina State University, and certification as a project management professional.
She resides with her husband in South Bend, Indiana. Besides eldercare advocacy, her other passion is Board service with the Bridge of Hope St. Joseph County, a program serving single mothers in need.
TRANSITIONING YOUR AGING PARENT
A 5 Step Guide through Crisis & Change
Dale Carter
ISBN: 978-0-557-44740-4
$14.95
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August 28, 2010 by Alzheimer's Speaks
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August 28, 2010 by Alzheimer's Speaks

Lori La Bey
The Red Sled – Winter Dilemmas and Alzheimer’s Disease
Looking at tough decisions on housing and Alzheimer’s disease. This is a short story of how my family dealt with addressing safety issues with my parents living situation. How my Parents perceptions and our perceptions as their children differed greatly and where that all led us.
Here is the link to the video
Help DRIVE CHANGE
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August 28, 2010 by Alzheimer's Speaks
How to Interact with Alzheimer’s Patients
This video will give you great ideas on different types of props you can use to engage a person with Alzheimer’ disease. The suggestions given are primarily items used round your own home to keep costs down you. Lear to enrich your life and theirs by trying these simple techniques.
DRIVING CHANGE Starts with Noticing what is Important.
Lori La Bey
Here is the link http://www.youtube.com/user/AlzheimersSpeaks?feature=mhum#p/f/6/IzysslAWgW8
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August 28, 2010 by Alzheimer's Speaks
HEALTH AND WELLNESS FAIR Sept 11th & 12th, Golden Vally, MN
Saturday & Sunday September 11th & 12th
11:00 – 2:00 P.M.
Mort’s Delicatessen’s Parking Lot
525 Winnetka Ave
Golden Valley MN
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August 28, 2010 by Alzheimer's Speaks
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August 27, 2010 by Alzheimer's Speaks
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August 27, 2010 by Alzheimer's Speaks

Where do you want to be at the end of your life?
Consider the Conversation is a fantastic organization and I encourage you all to check out their video clips.
http://www.considertheconversation.org/
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